If you know of someone who has lost a child now or in the future...this link will help (by potentially stopping you from being an ass...)

Please click on this lady's blog and check out her post on losing a child.

If you have someone in your life whose child has died it is really worth the read.

Thanks

http://missinglarry.com/2012/05/30/for-those-of-you-who-believe-you-could-lose-your-child-tomorrow-and-still-be-who-you-are-today-2/